"So oftentimes people endure lonely because nosotros lack the comforting skills that volition give us the confidence to last comforters." Susan Hunt
Do you lot know how to answer to a pain friend? Most of us don't unless we've gone through suffering ourselves (2 Corinthians 1:3-5).
In Psalm 69:20, the psalmist laments that he looked for comforters but flora none -- a mutual problem.
But this shouldn't happen! Here are around ways anyone tin strength out comfort:
- Be available--Help amongst physical in addition to emotional needs without making your friend experience they're imposing on your schedule.
- Be non-judgmental--Most of us are arrogant plenty to mean value nosotros sympathise why mortal is suffering. We must avoid the trap of becoming a "Job's friend."
- Be a listener, non a "fixer"--Too oftentimes nosotros mean value nosotros quest to give advice when nosotros merely quest to listen, comfort in addition to pray: "Rejoice amongst those who rejoice; mourn amongst those who mourn." Romans 12:15
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