Showing posts with label people-pleasing. Show all posts
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Saturday, June 5, 2021

The Unsafe Trap Of People-Pleasing - Proverbs 29:25

You tin flaming delight some of the people all of the fourth dimension The Dangerous Trap of People-Pleasing - Proverbs 29:25

We must seek to delight God, non man.. 
  
"You tin flaming delight some of the people all of the time, yous tin flaming delight all of the people some of the time, only yous can’t delight all of the people all of the time.”  Abe Lincoln  

Old Abe knew what He was talking about. People-pleasing is a dead end. Don't larn me wrong--we involve to live on form together with gracious, only nosotros should live on to a greater extent than concerned almost God's opinions than the opinions of others. 

Proverbs 29:25 says, "Fear of human being volition seek to live on a snare, only whoever trusts inward the LORD is kept safe."

When nosotros focus on people-pleasing, nosotros destination upwardly doing things nosotros shouldn't then people volition similar us.  

The cure: get got it to the Lord, inquire His sentiment together with heed to what He says.

Today together with every day, let's larn far our goal to "find out what pleases the Lord" (Ephesians 5:10).  

You tin flaming delight some of the people all of the fourth dimension The Dangerous Trap of People-Pleasing - Proverbs 29:25

Saturday, May 22, 2021

People Pleasing Is A Dead Goal

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When nosotros verbalize well-nigh "people-pleasers" nosotros oftentimes intend of weak, doormat types. But people-pleasing is a subtle work for most of us. 

We all experience insecure when people turn down us, but nosotros must proceed these things inward mind:
1. Insecurity is oftentimes a sign of people-pleasing.
2. People's expectations in addition to opinions change.
3. God's expectations are stable in addition to dependable. 

Sometimes people unsubscribe from Bible Love Notes because they don't similar something I've written. I could avoid this if I exclusively wrote things people wanted to hear.

But God's Word gives us a amount moving-picture demo of truth, non only the tardily parts. And I know that I require to locomote challenged in addition to corrected besides equally encouraged in addition to comforted.

I would rather delight the Lord past times presenting the amount gospel than delight men past times exclusively sharing the "easy" parts.

I'm learning to bargain alongside my insecurities past times reminding myself of Colossians 3:23: "Work willingly at whatsoever you lot do, as though you lot were working for the Lord rather than for people." 

If you lot bring similar insecurities, I encourage you lot to memorize this verse.


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Monday, December 28, 2020

When To Care

Most of us tending to a greater extent than nearly what people intend than what God thinks When To Care

Most of us tending to a greater extent than nearly what people intend than what God thinks.

We should tending what others intend about:

1. The agency nosotros process them (Philippians 2:3-4).

We should endeavor to live on the variety of mortal who is known for our compassion, thoughtfulness, together with consideration (Luke 6:31).

2. The agency nosotros alive out our Christian values (1 Peter 1:17).

We should live on known for adept deeds together with Biblical moral values
(Matthew 5:16).

But nosotros should never tending what other people intend about:

1. Our looks, social status, income level, race, etc. (1 Samuel 16:7).

God looks at hearts without prejudice. None of these criteria get got eternal value (1 John 2:15-17).

2. Our refusal to get got pop philosophies together with worldly values (Colossians 2:8).

Our culture's values are constantly shifting. It's impossible to delight both civilization together with God (Luke 9:26).

Bottom line: When our destination is pleasing God, nosotros volition automatically live on inwards correct human relationship amongst men, whether nosotros delight them or not.


Most of us tending to a greater extent than nearly what people intend than what God thinks When To Care

Sunday, March 29, 2020

4 Signs We're People-Pleasers

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Most of us endure to around extent from "fear of man." Here are around subtle signs:

1. We second-guess everything nosotros tell or do.
2. We permit friends as well as civilisation influence our values.
3. We're to a greater extent than worried nearly offending homo than offending God.
4. We rest soundless nearly God's values when they're unpopular alongside our friends.

It's appropriate to attention nearly other people's feelings. God tells us to brand conflict resolution a priority inwards our lives (Matthew 5:23-24).

And He tells us to move other-centered, non self-centered (Philippians 2:3-4).

But our commencement priority must ever move to delight God, non men (Proverbs 29:25).

People's expectations as well as opinions of us tin modify inwards a moment. God's expectations are stable as well as dependable. 

When somebody doesn't similar us or is offended past times something we've done, let's accept it to the Lord commencement as well as permit Him tell us what pleases Him inwards the province of affairs (Ephesians 5:10).
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Saturday, January 11, 2020

Stand Upward As Well As Die

A soldier entered an cloak-and-dagger church building together with raised his gun Stand Up together with Die

A soldier entered an cloak-and-dagger church building together with raised his gun.

“Deny your faith together with larn home, or stand upward where you lot are together with endure shot.”

Scores of people fled spell a remnant of scared only faithful believers tardily stood to their feet.

A soldier entered an cloak-and-dagger church building together with raised his gun Stand Up together with Die
When they were alone, the soldier lowered his gun together with explained that he himself was a believer, only he couldn’t accept the endangerment of identifying himself with those who feared adult man to a greater extent than than God.

Dear Christians, would you lot direct maintain stood or fled?

We respond this query every twenty-four hours inward subtle ways:

Will nosotros stand upward up for Biblical truths regarding salvation, hell, repentance, Christian values, abortion, transgenderism, homosexuality, pornography, premarital sex...

Or volition nosotros scurry out the door to the faux safety of our fallen culture?  

"Be on your guard; stand upward theater inward the faith; endure courageous; endure strong." 1 Corinthians 16:13

"Put on the amount armor of God, together with then that you lot tin accept your stand upward against the devil's schemes." Ephesians 6:11

Let's stand!
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For to a greater extent than on this subject: Is Jesus Likable? together with Hard Teachings 
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Note: I heard this floor many years agone together with it was said to direct maintain occurred inward a Communist country. I believe it to endure true, only I no longer direct maintain the source. Even if it is non true, it makes an first-class point.


Saturday, November 23, 2019

4 Reasons Why It's Hard...But Worthwhile

 people who intend they tin earn salvation or are harsh or manipulative almost Scripture iv Reasons Why It's Hard...But Worthwhile

Old Definition of Legalists: people who intend they tin earn salvation or are harsh or manipulative almost Scripture.

New definition: people who beak almost Christian responsibilities.

We're getting together with hence used to decaf Christianity, that genuine organized religious belief is becoming unpopular, particularly when nosotros beak almost Christian responsibleness or self-denial.


Salvation is a gift – no adept plant tin earn it (Ephesians 2:8), but living for Christ is non easy, together with nosotros shouldn't country anyone it is.

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1. Following Christ has a cost.
Luke 14:25-34

2. God has expectations of us
Ephesians 5
(one of many examples)

3. We tin please, displease, grieve, anger, disappoint, together with wound our Lord.
Genesis 6:6
Ephesians 4:30
Isaiah 63:10

4. Following Christ requires self-denial together with effort.
Matthew 10:37-38
Matthew 10:28
Romans 12:2
Colossians 1:9-10


Living for Christ isn't easy, exactly it's wonderful. He is the alone One who tin relieve us together with the alone One who tin modify us from the within out!
1 Thessalonians 2:4-6
 
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