Families are destroyed yesteryear these half dozen stubborn choices:
1. Refusal to speak over problems.
Discussing things tin hold upwardly messy work, precisely it's ameliorate than shutting off all promise for reconciliation (You Can't Serve God if You Refuse.
2. Refusal to acknowledge error.
If nosotros can't nation we're lamentable or acknowledge nosotros could direct maintain done something better, nosotros aren't beingness honest (James 5:16).
3. Refusal to process others every bit nosotros wish to hold upwardly treated.
If nosotros tin entirely run across things from our perspective, we'll ever direct maintain problems (5 Things Annoying People Never Do.
4. Refusal to forgive.
If nosotros can't forgive, the problems volition grow roots (Colossians 3:13; Hebrews 12:15).
See When Forgiveness Seems also Hard.
5. Refusal to run across relationships every bit give as well as take.
If we're setting all the rules inwards the human relationship as well as ignoring the desires of others, nosotros bespeak to memorize Philippians 2:3-4.
See Get Out of Yourself.
6. Refusal to convey that all relationships direct maintain problems.
If nosotros exaggerate difficulties, act every bit if they eclipse all the skilful aspects of the relationship, or role them every bit an excuse to give up, nosotros bespeak to hollo back that all relationships are made upwardly of imperfect people, ourselves included (Ephesians 4:2).
If nosotros brand whatever of these 6 choices inwards our relationships, nosotros bespeak to grow upwardly inwards our organized faith (1 Corinthians 3:1-3).
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